I’m Still In Love With My Ex – 7 Tips To Handle Being In Love With Your Ex April 2, 2009
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If you’re saying “I’m still in love with my ex,” but you feel like it’s finally over for good, then you need to stop looking on dark side and think positively. There are plenty of relationships that look as if they’re over, but the reality is that people find a way back together.
Before you launch into a full on attempt to win back your love, make sure your relationship is a relationship that should be saved! Too often relationships that should remain dead are revived with dire consequences.
So ask yourself this: “did your relationship involve physical and or emotional abuse?” If the answer is yes you need to accept that this kind of relationship is best left over with. Instead work at restoring any eroded self-esteem and move on.
However, if your relationship was simply a falling out, misunderstanding or maybe a loss of trust then that is completely recoverable even if only one of you wants it, you just have to find the right course.
So You Still Love Your Ex?
Let’s take a look at some of things you should consider if you are still very much drawn to your ex.
1. What’s good about declaring “I still love my ex!” is you no doubt had a really strong relationship with your ex and if you feel that you’re still in love with them, then chances are they feel the same about you.
2. Provided some weeks have past, you should take a moment to call your ex and ask if you can have a talk with them. Don’t make it sound as though you are begging and pleading for the meeting, just make it sound as casual as you can.
3. Arrange for the meeting to take place somewhere neutral where neither of you will be tempted to cause a scene or let your emotions take over. If you are really seriously stating that “I am still in love with my ex” then you will need to take some time to figure out what you are going to say to get them back.
4. You don’t need to take notes, but you need to have it clear in your mind. So be sure to take some time to figure out why you want your ex back. Yes you’re still in love with them and that in itself is a good reason, but try and give your ex tangible reasons why they should take you back.
5. Talk about your dreams and aspirations and explain to them where you see them fitting into those dreams and aspirations, however don’t make the mistake of making your ex the be all and end all of your dreams.
6. Don’t put yourself in a position where if they don’t agree to the reconciliation that your dreams are ruined. You don’t want to come across as needy and fixated, you just want your ex to know that there is a real place for them in your life.
7. You then need to give your ex the space to express themselves and you need to listen to what they say. Do all of that and your declaration that “I’m still in love with ex” should give you a reciprocal answer from your ex.
hi!!! my name is Lisa and i’m 17 years old. My exex boyfriend’s name is Jonathan. Okay… we were couple for like 3 months or 2 months something like that. And here’s story, we went out for 3 days and he dump me cuz he said we don’t kno each other whatever something like that. And we went back together, and we went out for 3 weeks and i dumped him. And he wants to back together again. So, we went back together. And at last year’s Homecoming, i found my number 3 boyfriend named Anthony.
And we were like holding hands, and Jon was like”Is he your boyfriend?” and i said to him”i guess, why? and are u mad at me or are u sad?” and something like that, he said he’s fine. But when i were together with my Anthony, he was like don’t you love me? honey… . And he asked me who i am gonna choose so i choose Anthony. And i dump him for Anthony.
The reason right now, i feel like i’m in still in love with Jon. Because he’s such a sweetie…and sometimes, he says your cute, adorable,so pretty.
Well… i kno that we’re just friends but i Actully feel this way…
Lisa, for the love of all that is good, please ask your English teacher for some extra lessons in spelling and grammar, that was truely painful to read. In my opinion, on/off relationships are rarely healthy and it really doesn’t seem either of you have particularly strong feelings for the other. Just move on.
Lisa.tel jon wid subtle ways hw u feel. Den find out if he feels d same way.
lol
You’re 17, your relationships are meaningless right now. Shut up and stop being a whore.
i think im in love with my ex bf…..im 12 and is name is ryan…..its just SO complicated and im dying we are bestestestestest friends but i cant deal with this and he is going into middle school next year and he said he is going to start up dating again then…i love him with all my heart and feel like i am going to die without him. dont think that this has been for a week, since january and this is may 2010. GOD HELP ME! I LOVE YOU RYAN!
For one, Your 12 – you cant be in love. You only went out for 5ish months. Two, if you are friends why would you want to ruin your relationship if you broke up again? I went out with one of my best friends, we dated for 3 weeks.. It was the most akward time because before we went out we would hang out almost everyday, we would go camping together, and then when I broke up with him, we never had the same relationship as before and I miss that. Dont risk your relationship with him and honestly – if he’s a year older than you, He will find new girls in middle school and nothing will stop that. He obviously doesnt feel the same way about you if he told you hes going to date new girls in middle school.
you’re 12. you’re not in love.
My name is farah im from algeria im18 i feel like im In love with m’y ex boy f who i was with him 3 Years ago im In contact with him In few weeks he has a lot of plblms In thèse days i feel that he Is not In love with me today he send me a MSG hé told me that hes In lové with me but i dnt feel that Its true i dnt know what to do im so comfused
Hello, My name is Jorden and I’m a 17 year old girl. I’m in a very sticky situation right now. A few months ago my school had an dance, and I was intending to go with the love of my life, Tad. But, before I could even ask him, another guy, Aaron, had asked me. I really wanted to know what it would be like to be with someone else. But it tore me up inside not to be near Tad when it was such a romantic evening. I hated myself for that. I dumped Aaron right after the dance, but I was too late.Tad had given up on me and he got a new girlfriend. Brieanna. She is 2 years younger than him..and she’s so much more immature than he is. But honestly I don’t see any spark in their relationship. Like Tad isn’t happy with her. I never see any sparkles in his eyes when he’s with her. I saw that sparkle in his eyes when he was with me. He was happy. And it’s that small fact that gives me hope of being with Tad again. But Tad always feels so comfortable around me, and he always wants to be around me. I don’t wanna break them up because I’m being selfish or anything. I’m Stuck. What should I do?
i’m 17 and i met my ex my first boyfriend freshman year, i hung out with him, at first he was a player but he fell for me first! and he changed for me, come the end of freshman year he asked me out and i said yes…we were together the whole summer and our sophmore year i’ll never forget, it was amazing, but then he started to change, he was an evangelist and we got into disussions of our religions (me being catholic and all) and one day he just ups and says that he didn’t feel a connection with me anymore, and it was a punch in the face, we got through it but later he stared being distant, so i decided it was best that we break up, and he had been thinking that too, so we broke up, i was so mad at him, he said the breakup had nothing to do with another girl, so i thought to myself, why would he say that if i never thought it…but w.e i got over it and we started talking again, 10th grade year finished and he said he was going to another school, so i never saw him again, adn now we’re talking again, but i still love him…and i don’t know if he feels the same…all i’m saying for advice, don’t get hung up on your freshman love…
I am 19 years old and yes you named it ,”still in love with my ex”. Me and him dated for a year.. Throughout the relationship we budded heads alot, we got into a lot of arguments but would make up.. The last argument was the killer, and we had gone out for a year and been separated for two months.. However, our rendezvous nights were amazing when we casually met up.. Finally I had the courage to tell him I still love him, and I want to grow old with him.. I love him, he is my other half..He cried because he still has feelings for me too, he had a lot of doubt if our relationship could work again.. However, I assured him that he was the only one doubting it.. Cause if you love someone you are willing to sacrifice anything to be laying by that person next to you, to be cuddling and holding his hand. We finally agreed to take baby steps and see where it goes… So far so good, but it was just so great to know he still loved me too…I am in love, and I want him to be by my side forever.. I don’t want any man but him. Knowing you love someone is when you can’t be away from them for a day… Or how you miss their cuddles.. And soft sweet nothings that are whispered in your ear.. So yes ladies, if you love him..and you know he has feelings for you too… TELL HIM !!! Cause you will always think of him being the one who got away…
hi my name is melissa.dated dis guy for 2yrs n we broke up becos we were too caught up in our own stuff n didnt hav time fro us. a frend of mine who has had a crush on me since foreever finally had a chance.his been so sweet and all my family loves him.but me,i just think he is sweet and nice.well weve been dating for about 4 months now and he is always there for me no matter wat.he does stuff ma ex never had time to do.i dont ask for much cos its de lil things that means de world to me.but deep down i still love my ex.we talk and chat and all n honestly anytime i see his call comin thru i cant hellp smilin.i still luv him but i dont kno wat to do.i dont want to heart my new bf cos de whole family thinks he is “the one”.am confused.help.i dont want to marry the wrong person end end up cheatin.cos even now am cheatin on my new bf with my ex
Yea i know chic site..bt am in love with my ex too…we broke up 4 no reasn…n all i ave wantd ever since is jst her..pls help=(
Did you ever ask her what caused you to break up?Most relationships end due to a situation,wheather its from lack of communication,cheating,trust issues,most just because of differences you may have had im sure there was a reason.At times it helps if you ask questions,communicating with the person you love trying to find out whats going wrong most times will help you fix the problem.Sometimes you feel as though everything is ok,but the other person may be feeling different.Communication is very important in every relationship.Ive learned that from my own exprience i lacked communication with my ex i found out a lot now that we are just friends we tell each other everything ,even figured out whatwent wrong,and we found it was trust issues that could hae easily been worked out if we would have took the time out to talk about our relationship instead of watching it slowly fall apart well i hope i was some help,hope everything gets better for you(:cause i know feeling that way doesnt feel good at all
if all that you want is her then ask her why you guys broke up take it from her, she might see it differntly then you do, talk to her and maybe you’ll start dating again no promises
Hi.My name is Mina and i was in a relationship with my ex-boyfriend for 9 mths,I know its not long but we were in love.He lives Across the street from me and so we got to spend a lot of time with each other.I still see him almost everyday when he walks by,but its always just a hey whats up and nothing more.It seems as if when hesees me he wantsto talk but doesnt know how i would react.I cant seemto find why i still love him?I am currently in a relationship with a nice guy i love him as well,hes the best bf a girl could eer want,but he has a kid already andsometimes i fear he will cheat on me with his ex.Many times i feeliwant my ex back,i lknowim not completely over him its been 10 long mths aince we haent been together but when we were i was pregnant with his child unfortunately i had a miscarriage that hurt me really bad,and now he has a child of his own seems like hes moved on why cant i feel that way?When i talk to him on the phone he tells me he still loves me,he dont know what happened to us i feel that he loves me too.When he sees my bf come around he gies him a dirty look,I know he doesnt like him.Ifeel as though he wants me back,im confused what should I do?Why do i still love him?
I think I love him. To be honest, I never told him that I loved him when we dated 2 years ago. But dating was simply the beginning of our relationship. When we broke up we continued being friends, which was difficult and we almost gave up a few times, but we pressed on. When I finally thought I had come to a place where I had no other feelings for him but friendship, he told me that he has a new summer job 5 minutes from where I live in the summertime, which baffled me because i live in the middle of nowhere! Anyway, we hung out all summer long and talked about our dreams, aspirations, everything. It was all the same. We want to live the same lifestyle, raise our kids the same way, etc.. Well, summer ended and now he is abroad studying Spanish in South America and we talk as often as we can. Though the question has not yet been brought up whether or not we should try to date again. I’m not so sure I want it to be either. This is where I am torn. I love him, I know this. But I’m not sure I’m ‘in love with him’ and I don’t know if I want to risk losing him to find out… I don’t know what i’d do without him.
hi!im am Ntuane nd 21 years,i hv been luv with my ex 4 da past 5 years and our relationship wz a distant one nd we would see each ada after smtyme,Ibroke up with da guy after some several talks,the guy had most of da tyme 4 himself and put me 2 be inda relationship alone,i wz da one who wil do ol da communications and arrage our meetings,one day durn da holdayz i wnt 2 da village wer he wz 4 a mnth but came like i went,we didnt c each ada coz he wl say he wz bzy smtmz cum back with no kiss 4rm him or a hug..He said to me babae gv me sum tyme i wil chnge bt nthn hapnd nd then pulled myself bak..Imz my EX very much nd think of him everyday,if he doesnt rply my sms or send me an sms i fil sad,i really cnt get ova him nd fil like askn him bak.during our broke up he askd me 4 sex nd i said YES!i knw he stil lovz me too coz yestrdy he asked if i had found guy..HE WZ MY 1st LOVER I REALLY LOVE DZ GUY PLZ HELP!i even put hz picture as screen saver 4 my laptop nd 4ne.
just move on
Hi, my name is Lynn and I’m definitely still in love with my ex. I’m also married so how do I deal with being in a marriage but think of my husband as just a friend while my mind is always focused on my ex, who is a woman.
Long story short 4 years ago my husband and I seperated. I ended up getting in a financial bind 2 yrs later and he helped me out. Meanwhile I was still dating my ex but didn’t let her know of my complications. Time went on and my husband an I got back together because he still wanted me but I felt as though I owed him something since he helped me out of my bind. Although I was still seeing my ex, she didn’t know I was back with my husband. My ex an I was together for 4 yrs and just recently broke up. Do to the fact that I’m busy with work and school. I really want her back and I’m ready to start a life with her and only her. Minus the fact that I need to get a divorce, how can I get the love of my life back?
For years I wanted my husband to not cheat and lie, now that I’ve found someone that has the qualities I’m looking for without all the drama, I don’t want to loose it. I know she still loves me, she tells me all the time. It’s something about us that just keeps bringing us back together.
HI MY NAME IS CHERRY FROM FONTANA I AM 28 YEARS DAMM I AM OLD LOL WELL MAKE IT SHORT I STILL IN LOVE WITH MY EX BOYFRIEND WE HAVE KIDZ TOGETHER AND I CAN STOP THINKING OF HEM AND I KNOW HE WILL ACCPTED ME BACK BUT I CAN GO BACK WITH HEM CZ I STILL HAVE ANGER AT HEM FOR WHAT HE DID TO ME HE CHEAT IT AND IT STILL HURT BUT I REALLY WANT TO MOVE ON BUT I CAN I MEET COUPLE PPL BUT NOT INTRESTED ON THEN I FEEL LIKE I CANT FALL IN LOVE AGAING CZ I STILL LOVE MY EX WHAT COULD I DO HELP ME PLZ??????
hey my name is rena !! well itz been a year since i broke up with my bf but im still in love with him! And our rltn stayed for like about 7 to 8 months! i have no idea how it hpnd we jst fell in luv with each other i cant remember if he even askd me in an inderct way to be with him ( we were kind of bst frndz)!but we met at the internet and i had some problems in my family i jst cldnt tell it to him i was afraid he might get worried abt me!! i rly love him !! and when we broke up he asked me to stay close to him and let him know abt wat was goin on with me!! Now we talk and smtimes he show me he cares and sometimes he doesnt!! i have no idea what to do !?! :S help!?
My name is Tyler, 20, and I met my ex in junior high school. Going into sophomore year she broke up with one of my good friends and when I heard I called to “console” her. Had I known that single moment would alter the course of my young life I might have reconsidered, but here I am with a weathered heart and no one to give it to. We dated off and on from that summer until Senior year in high school when my jealousy and selfishness kicked in during our latest stretch. My hypothesis is that I broke up with her because it tore me up to see her even speak to another guy in her flirty demeanor. Also my love for her was so great that it felt generally one sided. I would by no means go off on her for talking to guys or anything like that but kept my pain silent. After graduation I made one final attempt to recapture our connection which resulted in us meeting up to ‘talk’. This began awkwardly but soon we were talking about our feelings and I kissed her. She resisted at first but then kissed me back. This relation epiphany seemed bullet-proof when I walked her out to her car and planted what would be known as our final kiss under the street lights. Soon enough she informed me that rekindling this would be too complicated before she left home for college and long distance relations seemed to her a long distant option. Two years later here I am searching google for “getting over your ex tips”. Jesus. Some days I will catch my self manufacturing elaborate memories that could have been or reliving moments that were. I love her so much and now my devotion is really being tested as I’ve heard she recently “hooked up” with my old best friend. I feel so sick when I think of this. And at this point my logical process has come full circle to the present and I still feel more lost than ever. Help!
I’m 25 and I broke up with my ex boyfriend a year and a day ago. I think about him EVERY single day. I feel like I can’t live with out him. When I picture my future having kids and settling down I see him in it. I don’t know what to do
ok guys…so my best friend told me something that really help me…I was crying and telling her how in love I am with my ex and she said what would you do if he came to your door right now and wanted to get back together…I replied I jump into his arm and we would make love and she replied really you could kiss him and love him the same way you did even after he abandon you after he put someone else over you…I thought about it and then she replied look you would only be happy for a little while and even when you got back together you wouldn’t be able to trust him (which he did break your heart so it would be normal not to trust him)I stood there dumbfounded she said I know your love meant so much to you…but it didn’t mean anything to him b/c if it didn’t he would have been there thru random girls,hard times,and anything that life had to throw at you my point is if you were dumped then they don’t deserve you and if you were the dumper then their’s a reason you dumped them!
Im deeply in love with my ex girlfriend but i know things are over for good i was with her about 6 months and of course being a guy you dont like being tied up with a clingy girl to make matters worse she was almost trying to control everything i did it seemed as if she was watching me all the time she would find out everything i did everyday the people i talked to the places i went i couldnt deal with the pressure anymore so i had to end it she said she would change for me but i dont know if she was really going to change or be the same as she was so i was scared i didnt want to waste my time if she wasnt really going to change but now that i think about it i should have atleast given her a chance it would have been the same thing to do i brushed her off as if i never knew her i honestly forgot about her for a year then all of the sudden im just thinking one day thinking of everything that ive been through and everything ive done and realized i should have atleast tried to make it work with her just seeing her do the imature stupid things she does makes me wish i could have stayed with her and made her a better person i believe she was so caught up with me she tried making the feelings go away by doing stupid things talking to so many guys doing things with them even if she barley knew them just to make it stop but i guess it didnt stop im pretty sure shes still in love with me but theres no way for me to grow the courage to talk to her again because the things ive said about her to everyone was to cover up what i really thought about her but in time they covered it up so well that if i was to ever talk to her again i would never hear the end of it from anyone i would lose all my respect dignity friends the way people look at me and even if thats the only way i could get her back i dont think i would sacrafice all that just to be with her its been almost a year and a half and i dont know what she would be like now it might just be a lost cause and i might end up regreting it big time and i dont really want to end up with shit on both shoes if you understand where im coming from i honestly dont know what to do anymore i cannot stop thinking about her its almost like every minute of my life i think about her everytime im outside and cars pass me by i always think to myself maybe shes in one of those cars and sees me im not the obsessed type dont get me wrong i just wishy i worked things out earlier so now i wouldnt have this big weight on my shoulders that wont ever go away
my name is jacob, i feel silly saying this i love my ex heaps i lose sleep over her and she cant get out of my head she said there is alot on her mind and we need a break everytime i see her i just cant help but look at her mezmerized in her stunning beauty me and my good friend stay at her house every weekend and it feels like a piece of me goes away every time i cant hold her in my hands i want to tell her how i feel but everytime i try i stumble I LOVE YOU GRACE NO MATTER HOW DESPERATE IT SEEMS
My ex-boyfriend left me almost a year ago. It was the worst time of my life, I felt like giving up completley. Only in the last few months have I managed to pull myself together a bit. But I still love him, so much. He has a new girlfriend now, yet he still meets up with me for hugs, kisses and sex. He says he doesn’t love me anymore, but he will always have a “soft spot” for me. How can he not love me, but act exactly the same with me as he did when we were in a relationship? He’s the love of my life, my soulmate. I can’t live without him. Please help.
Hi i am 25 and i broke up with my ex three years ago, at first i didnt care i was glad to have gotten rid of him. Anyways i have now been single two years and i find myself thinking more and more about him and wanting to be with him again, btw he has since moved on married and has a son. when him and i met we were both young not ready for relationship, i have grown and now know what it takes to make a relationship work. i hope in the very near future him and i can be back together. Fyi we have children together
I went out wit thz guy nd a month into our relationshp i heard that he got back wit hs ex..we broke up..nw its 3yrz he wants me back he admits he was foolish nd dat hs feelings 4 me ar stil ther nd é funny thing is that he gives me butterflies.
Ray Ray-august 8, 2011
I guessed you already got the fact that yes i’m still in love with my ex, my first love.we went out for a week before he dumped me for somebody else but we have stayed bestbestbest friends forever and he has always looked after me amongst other things.
we always love to flirt with each other and i love the fact that he always compliments me always calls me sexy and gorgeous beautiful and amazing and lately everything has become very awkward always argueing over little tiny things not talking to each other for days maybe weeks even months at a time, but when things are good we can always talk to each other cuddle up to one another and have a very good time together he knows that I still love him very much and he often says that he loves me to but i think he means it in a friendly way sometimes i often don’t doubt that he definetly means it in a friendly way but i cannot get this amazing man out of my head i think about him every minute of every day pplease help me what do i do??
i love my ex and cant get over her , hopefully joining the military will help me with these feelings and help me forget what i cant have ….
My names nick I’m 18 me and this girl kayla dated for two
years and we started fighting a lot I got acused of something a huge misunderstanding but sometimes I wonder did I? but we stayed together and I tried and tried to get it back to normal finaly she got fed up with everything we both decided to go are seperate ways and she promised me wed be friends and she won’t talk to me now its been 6 months and not a single day has gone by were I haven’t regreted moving or leaving her I have dreams that she come to me smiling with her beutiful smile but no matter the dream I always wake up in the morning with a tear in my eye because I love that girl to death…I kept my promise weres hers?
Hai! My name is Holly and I’m 13 and I know your probably going to say kids don’t know love.but me an my ex Giorgio went out for 2 weeks an 4 days I ended it on impulse cause I thought he was making me choose.So we were apart for about 5 days and then we got back together an he dumped me after 5 days.So then I was due for an operation an I thought this time was for sympathy an we went out for about a week.He knows how much I feel for him right now and I’v talked to him but I know he likes me but then this part of my mind tricks me into thinking he’s lying.I cry alot and I don’t know what to do.I’v tried getting over him but it’s impossible.I feel as if he was ‘The One’ could you please help me? Thanks alot for taking the time to read this! Holly x
I am still in love with my ex. We split up about 4 years ago and I haven’t had a girlfriend since her. Sure, there have been other girls, but no girlfriends, if you know what I mean? No one is good enough. No one is quite like her, her wit, her intelligence, her sense of humour, and her captivating, elegant beauty. I dream of her, really pathetic lovey dovey dreams too. Walking through the park, holding hands, talking… no naughtiness or anything! But yea, she was brilliant, but was in love with someone else, so we split up. I said some really nasty things, for which there is no apology sincere enough, and no excuse. I pray for guidance, but as for the next step? I just don’t want to scare her off by phoning her, or lose her by not phoning her. I always dream of meeting her by chance in the street, maybe it will happen, but we now live a fair distance from one another, and it’s increasingly unlikely. Maybe she feels the same, maybe she found this page… in which case; I love you Zee! How about a coffee? Josh x
I’ve never actually wrote on one of these before but it looks like you get some amazing advice back.I’m 17 years old and I had a 4 year relationship with my ex which finished a few months back, we’d been through a lot together and gave up things so we could be together. Things were in my eyes perfect last year time but then it all just went wrong and I had not physical but a lot of verbal abuse of him a lot he then stopped me from doing things like going out with my friends or talking to other lads, it all seemed like normal at the time. I loved him and he loved me but things got out of hand and there was a lot of trouble that went on, I finished it with him because I’d had enough of him making me feel down about myself and I just decided to call it a day. He didn’t like it so he decided to send threats and get people to start with me.. Basically he caused me and my family so much crap its unbelieveable! But my feelings for him just won’t go atall:( there always in the back of my mind! And I just wish they’d stop because I carnt carry on feeling this way about such a monster:( please help xx
I feel like I am still in love with my ex-boyfriend. I have a new boyfriend and he is the golden catch,however, I can’t seem to forget my ex-boyfriend. It is almost a year and a half since we broke up, yet I miss him terribly. I don’t know what to do. Do I break up with Mr. Perfect to chase an idea of the love I once had, or make it work with the new guy?
Hey my name is Jenny and I was in a relationship with this Guy for 2 years than we broke up :S im not sure if we both wanted to break up and I dont know how that happened but than I tried to move on so I dated this other guy for like 2 weeks but it didnt work.3 months have passed and I cant forget him and I think he might be mad at me for dating this other guy! Help me! What should I do …
hey i’m Ronnie and i’m still in love with my ex. the 1st time we were together it was great no problems or anything but then school started back and it was getting a bit more difficult to see each other so he decided to break up. i was rally sad but got with his best mate to annoy him. it worked and before i knew it we were back together. but then one night after a very bad week i decided to have my cousin stay and we opened a bottle of vodka. she new i wasn’t myself and tried to cheer me up but that didn’t work. i came up with the idea to invite somebody in, instead of asking my boyfriend i asked this guy that i knew really liked me. anyway one thing led to another and i ended up cheating on him. i felt so bad. i told him 2 days later what i did and that we shouldn’t b together and he deserves better and all that. we stopped talking after that. months passed and i still had feelings for him. we are back talking now as nothing changed only thing is i still feel like i love him but i don’t think he could ever trust me again
ok i am still inlove with my ex i was goin to have his baby but i lost it we was doin so good together and i just want him back someone please help me
Hello, my name is Christopher.
Me and my girlfriend just broke up, but i still have strong feelings for her. The reason we broke up was because we were 2 widely different people, so we had a long talk about it, and we decided it was best for both of us that we only stayed friends.
The problem is, i still have strong feelings for her, but she says that she doesen’t “feel it” anymore. What should i do?
men and women just treat each other good its that simple compromise on things and be rational with your views. love is understanding each other having a friendship, commenting on how beautiful the other looks. as long as you share all aspects of life together good and bad. Then you are in love. if from the begining you never truly felt entirely confident with any aspect of the other person then you should never of got together for any reason. as love blossoms never be jealous or paranoid of what the other is doin or who they are with. Trust is key.
dont toy with peoples feelings and never lead people into a relationship that you never wanted, good luck to all!
Okay, My Ex Boyfriend And I Broke Up Recently. So Guess, Im Still Inlove With Him We Used To Be Bestfriends. So But He Told Me He Is Still Inlove With Me But That We Should Just Be Friends Inless It Leads To Another Direction. But I Don’t Want to Be Friends, Even Though Theres Still A Chance We Could Be Together Again, Its Very Uncomfortable At School Since We Have Almost All Classes Together. I Need Advice! How Do I Handle This?
ihi im still with my ex lance but he is marryed now so i dont know what to do he came by my moms house looking for me wihat can i do
hi me again look im still in love with lance we have been togeter for 8 years and i dont know what to do i want to see him but i dont if he wants to aee me
Lisa.tel jon wid subtle ways hw u feel. Den find out if he feels d same way.n try 2 stick 2 1 guy 4 awhile
i really love my ex i was heart broken for a month and then i changed into a b***h i felt so bad no i love him so much now he dumped me on my aunties funeral cause we were to far away but if u love someone so much you would wait foreva for them
what i mean is i want him back but i have a bf now he cares bout me but i have a feeling that cody cares more
Hi, my names Becka and I am 24 years old. I was dating my ex boyfriend for about 4 years. He cheated on me once when we first started going out. I haven’t slept with him because I wanted to wait until I knew we were getting married. But because we grew apart and of our differences k broke it off, and at first I knew I made the right decision and I rejected him when he begged for me back, but now it’s been a year later and he’s dating someone else and wants nothing to do with me. I don’t know what to do, I realized he’s the only one I wanna be with.
hey my name is Skyler and yes i’m a girl -.- and i’m 12 my ex’s name is Isisah and at the moment hes one of my best friends. but he used to be my bf we dated for 1 month and we never talked when we were dating i always tried to start a coversation but he would always freeze up then he broke up with my with a freaking note. i thought i was over him but then we started hanging out and i learned more about him then i realized that i was/am still in love with him, What should i do??
Hi my name is shila, I’m 18 years old. I think I’m still in love with my ex boyfriend. We used to go out for like 3 months it was goin well ,but he’s one of them guys that are on road a badboy,but he lied about his name his real name wasn’t the name he told me ,I had to find out by his older cousin. Which was soo embarrassing coz I felt like my whole relationship was bullshit. We split ed up. Then we got back together again then we started having arguments after arguments over silly lil things. Then we split ed up once again aint spoke 2 him for 6 months. Then a couple days after my 18th birthday he calls me and tells me shila I love u and miss you this and dat. Then I forgive him. Then he goes to me come see me this I go alright boom I go see him have a nice time and dat. He has never ever took me out,we just go back to his place watch movies and hug up. Then we start arguing again then I found out that he is my older lil cuzzien, then she goes I don’t want u seeing him its not right. But I still went to him I didn’t care coz I loved him. We was talking 3 days ago but since den he aint spoke to me or called me. And It hurts so much cuz I know he aint good for me but I still love him cuz he took my virginity and now I just wanna get over him but its really really hard
his name is Bob we are 43 and56. He is still after 7 months apart, the love of my life, and I want him back with all my heart.
Hi my name is Freya, I’m 13 yrs old, I’m still in love with my bf. I also like my best friends ex. In which both of them love me with all their hearts. My best friend lives in Alaska and she moving back in like two months, so it’s hopeless with him… But my ex, I’ve been banned from looking at from my parents because they think he hurt me really bad emotionally when it was just me overreacting, he also calle me last night wanting to talk about his big breakup with his most recent gf. He’s a sweet boy and he loves me still too and we both want to get back together but I not allowed to have a bf this year and even if I did go out with him I’d be grounded for life by my mom… I need help deciding on what to do with this relationship and all my friends don’t care about guys so yeah,
It’s really very difficult to totally accept advice as black and white advice because all situations are uniquely different. \i’m still in love with my ex after 6 years..My ex is with someone else and I understand ..being younger than me..needed to change his life and it really hurt. But although we have n’t seen each other face to face for these years , we still regularly text and talk..but I avoid telling him how I feel because I do not wish to complicate his relationship. He wants me to meet his new partner…but I find the thought of that difficult. I could quite happily never seeing my ex face to face again but still feel so much love and joy when we communicate.
For me to get over my ex, I would have to cut him off completely and I just can’t do it. I do believe that if you really love someone is should be unconditional…it’s just coping with it that is tough and I refuse to make myself hate him
hi. I HAVE a question to you readers. I AM IN HUGE PAIN OF BREAKUP. THE STORY IS AS. WE MITTED ON facebook AND BECOME A GOOD FRIEND. THAT TIME SHE HAD A b.f. BUT SHE WAS NOT HAPPY WITH HIM. HIS BOYFRIEND ALWAYS MAKE FOOL HER. SO THEY WAS MOSTLY FIGHT EACH OTHER. ONE DAY THE TOOK BREAKUP . NEXT DAY I PURPOSE HER IN FORMAL WAY JUST LIKE JOKING. BUT SHE WAS SERIOUS. AFTER ANOTHER 3 DAYS SHE ACCEPTED MY request. ONE DAY THE YAR ADMID IN HOSPITAL. I DID NOT LOW ABOUT THAT. SO I HAD SEND A SMS TO HER FRIEND. AT BY BAD LUCK MY MSG YAS cought by her father and her father had been complain to my girl friend mom. AS A RESULT SHE BECOME ANGRY. AND SHE TOOKED BREAKUP. I WAS WORRY ABOUT THAT BEHAVIOUR. THE WAS COMPLETLY CHILDISH MANNER. I CONFESSED TOO MUCH HER. T KNOW SINCE MORNING TO NEXT NIGHT. AFTER THAT SHE REPLY OF HE WE CAN LIVE AS FRIEND THAN I WILL. I WAS SHOCKED. BUT THAT TIME I AGREED.
after this incident she is was about to change little little. she stated ignoring me. WHAT SHOULD I DO . HELP
I’m almost 15 and I’m still in love with my ex-boyfriend!!!! He broke up with me 2 years ago for no reason!!!! Ever since he broke up with me he has been acting like a total jerk and now he is stalking me!!!!!!! what should i do??????
Well here is my story, me and my ex bf have been friends for five, maybe six years and we have dated several times because we still truly love each other but every time I try to talk to him after we break up or if I get another bf he won’t talk to me for about a week (if that). Here recently we have been texting practically non-stop talking about our feelings for each other are still there. I told him I would like to give it another chance and all he said was k… I truly do love him, I can’t breath when I’m around him, and when we hug I wish it would never end, I would love to find out if I should try this again and hope for the best or if I should say forget it and try my best move on….
hi, my name is Selena and well my ex’s name is Brayan.
here’s our story, we went out for nine straight months and then we broke up for like a month or at the least three weeks.
after that we got back together as we hit a year we broke up. i was honest with him and told him that some guy had kissed me; and therefore he dumped me. he came back to me but i though i was to good for him so i let him go after three months he found a girl that he really liked and after maybe a five months after i decided that was enough i loved him to much to let him be with her. it just caused me pain! then after seven months of him being with her, he broke up with her and came back to me because we talked everything out but our relationship didn’t managed to work out because she came back into the picture and after a while he said to me “i think we just so usto eachother, that this may not be love anymore” these words burn and became ashes and still in me heart. ever since then i let him be free and fly. he is back with the same girl but he still calls me every 30th to “check up” on me, well that’s his excuse. i’v been knowing this kid for 2years and 9months. i know when he covers thing up with a lie.
my biggest problem is after all the fain and lost love i’m the one still crying over him and still get “butterflies” in my stomic when i’m about to see him or while i’m talking to him. everytime i see him is like the first time i fell in love with him. i’m deeply confuse and no one can give me a better answer than “just forget him.”
PLEASE HELP!
hi there! im Die and my ex’s boyfriends name is Gelo. i know i don’t have any reason to be jealous ’cause everything between the two of us is over. but, i think i’m still really into him. everytime i saw him with another girl, its like im really affected. i just cry in one corner. i know i shouldn’t be affected but my heart is really shattering into pieces. we were together just for 5 months but it seems like that we were together for a very long time. i gave him all my love and my care. and now, i can see him walking with someone else. doing the things that we do with someone else. i just love him so much! </33 –GIE–
You all need to learn how to spell. It was beyond painful to read.
Hi im not leaving my name but im a 16 year old lad and im still in love with my ex, we were together for a year and nine months we then broke up due to constant arguing. After that i began to get close to other girls hoping i would forget about her…. I didnt, we ended up getting drunk at a party and…… After that we decided to get back together again and it was going really well for the first couple of weeks but suddenly we began to argue again like we used to so we broke up and i am now in a new relationship but i cant stop thinking about her and we keep meeting up to talk but everytime we do my feelings get stronger.